What is it about American culture that makes abuse so prevalent it’s normalized and goes unrecognized? Individuals snipe and prod but escape by saying “I’m just playing”. Yeah like a cat batting a mouse around before killing it. Wit, teasing, banter and flirting seem to have fallen out of favor and sardonic baiting is all…

If we understand all abuse is about control- including reality abuse. And gaslighting is about disguising abuse – so a sign someone wants control, how do we maintain kindness and gentle behavior without having to be a punching bag. I need to know. I’m close to giving up entirely. My cat came and reminded me…

There is often confusion about negative emotions. They make us feel bad just having them – which is also part of survival. Things that make you so angry you feel hatred are to be avoided! Anger is a fight response to fight, flight, freeze, or flee. You are under attack as far as your psyche…

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There’s this gaslighting too. If we move on to fembots I will worry.

Without going into specifics. I have regret and I need to. Even spells that are both a blessing and a curse can be complicated. And broken by the will and wishes of the one weaving words. But while I swore with them. No energy actually went to applying them. It was still too much and…

By the way This post has more details Check it out. It is indeed making me a bit nervous.

Without going too deeply why I am again approaching Christianity. Since I died and met God – in all his indescribable beauty. It seemed right to try again. With the church I feel closest to. With spring comes the idea of Repentance. And I certainly have plenty to need to pray for forgiveness. But there…

You log in to a website for a giggle at my expense. You arseholes. Invading my privacy for the “Lol”s Then, viola. You’re hacked. And it starts a cascade because the website is a “shiny” to I’m not able to provide the correct copy of the original because while true in wording it’s not playing…

Emotional Tai Chi is about calming the inner world under psychological duress. Why I need it is probably obvious by now. And while returning to my creed returned me to my soul there are other concepts that could help. Let R.E.A.L. C.U.F.F LinkS Have S.B.S.M Always R.S.S With P.M.H And hopefully some O.O. luck. The…