Sylvanna Devlin

Some places (like England) have equal opportunity sniping.

But in America theres an unusual power struggle happening beneath everyone’s noses and it’s god awful.

I’m speaking from experience because my ex spouse treated me (female at birth, fuck you.) as the man of the house and he was sometimes “such a women”

(There’s a detail I have omitted in case he ever gets a job again)

And this whole “what’s wrong with people thinking you’re transsexual?”

You figure it out fuckwit.

You have to ask why it’s difficult for those who have had to fight and claw to be recognized as their gender of psychological makeup?*

To have some booby woman even be prodded into that spotlight?

I am not stealing that thunder. Thank you.

Trans women are made of fire because you really have to want to be a woman to ditch male privilege by looks and join the “weaker” gender.

On that. Because women are viewed as less capable and are a “man” if they rebuke with skill. Are smarter, more academically inclined.

Or it’s that time of the month, or you missed the pill, any other way to diminish your position, or “are you feeling okay?”

“No. I’m angry. Sod off.”

It sucks. So women have gotten passive aggressive. And it’s nasty.

They do it to other women. They hen peck and compete for male attention like marriage is the end all be all of blissful existence.

They do it to their spouses if they feel weak and want to tear their partner down.

They get in the habit of squabbling and competing so heavily that someone sitting out is apparently a red flag to a bull. Hey power struggle waiting to happen. “I want to command you.”

Ah yeah, I’m only a sub in the bedroom and you are not my type. I don’t like assholes.

I’m only a pussycat to those who make me feel safe enough to let my guard down. Too.

And. Yes, Neurally-biochemically trans women are already woman in many ways before a single hormone pill.

Now, some general rules of better engagement.

Women (and others falling into the same traps):

You run? Don’t expect to be chased

You hide in the bathroom to cry? You expect to be given room to do so unless too many pills rattle.

Both?

Do not stand beside a locked door trying to continue.

Women? Don’t expect men to gently nudge and cajole you out of the bathroom. You want space? You should take it. But expect to be given it.

You should also give space.

Some of us just need to cool off. Leave us the fuck alone because nothing rational is happening once we reached the point of needing to walk away.

If they want to go take out their temper in a video game. They are not “just playing” and thus it’s okay to try to continue.

And in that vein. If we settle down we might still need space from the argument still so it is not time to start up again because “we seemed calm”

Of course you know all this you little toxic bitches. You are using reactive abuse to control your spouses and “win” because they (rightfully so) get pissed off you are ignoring their boundaries and then have to take care of their mood and yours.

Fuck off with crocodile tears.

If you cry like a banshee expect to be allowed a little bit of a good wail then maybe someone will comfort you.

So long as the asshole doesn’t complain you’re crying too loudly.

And what the fuck is with the last word? You can’t win at life so you toy with others? Jostle for perceived being in the right? Lapping up apologies like they are precious baubles?

A man blows his temper and now he’s the asshole for having feelings? For being wounded by you (though unable to admit it)?

Again. He has to deal with his own emotions and comfort you. Self regulate better! FFS.

Don’t bait, barb, and boundary cross. Do not try to continue arguments until no one else cares anymore and just will say anything to get you to stop.

No lying, needling, wheedling, or whining either.

Young at heart enough to chew a pen is normal. Your fuckery shouldn’t be.

Men. You too.