Sylvanna Devlin

Since some arshole became so annoying I raised my voice and he got the “yeah see” he wanted and I got some fucking peace, some are quite curious why I’m still in a good mood.

What did he have next once he realized I was enjoying the silence that followed.

“Game over will never sell”

Ah. Huh. Yeah hunny. Whatever. I’m busy and happy about something else.

Those following the truth will no doubt be aware it’s not even entirely clear if my writing will be publishable until 30 years from nowish because it’s just easier that way.

I’ve been harassed, abused, and some cunty bitch wants me to spread my legs for her cash.

Yeah hunny. Whatever. I’m busy.

Seriously she doesn’t seem smart enough to recognize the various forms of intelligence thus think her machinations are as clever as it gets!

Yeah hunny. Whatever. I’m busy.

I’ve been through hell and back and claws are still sunk in because?

Oh who cares

Sorry hunnies. I’m busy.

I’m excited because I’ve narrowed down (with some feline friendly assistance) a really good research topic for a PHD in psychology with an emphasis on human computer interaction.

I was practicing born for this.

Maybe I was. That’s a spiritual debate I’ll leave alone.

(Sorry god)

(At least he got the joke)

I studied usability as a communication major in college. I’ve dabbled and poked my nose into almost every field. I had (before said cunty bitch or her predecessor) friends in every field.

I’m fucking diverse.

And boy does everyone right now seem mad I’m in a good mood.

Lies are the reasons why.

Etc so forth.

I don’t know what synopsis they read – if that parts true. But it would be generous to say her comprehension of my external musing is… limited.

She also sounds like a racist bitch and wants the world to think everyone is like her.

Or she’s part of said team cunty bitch and also wants an egghead to become a prostitute because she doesn’t have the brains to consider brains worthwhile.

Anyway I’m too excited to listen to commotions down the hall, yelling, comments. The kind of bullshit we were all free from but the nasties waited all day to find an angle to abuse and cherry pick (badly interpreted) quotes from.

Whatever. It’s not important why anymore. They’re not an issue at the moment. My writing is on hold, my physical health is taking center stage. And I have a whole lot of psychology to mull over.

Like I said.

I’m busy.

Sitting here, thinking my thoughts, occasionally muttering. And ever occasionally chatting with someone not in the room with me.

But my good mood is not contagious.

And I’ve been so confused about all this created fuss and fury like all of Portland can hear some two bit hustler push buttons.

Yeah okay. Whatever hunnies.

I’m permanently too busy for this, okay?

P.S.

Sigh

Killjoy

Yes I am on Supplemental disability right now.

Yes I would need to go to school part time.

Yes I would need to train for a job I can do despite my disabilities. Training I don’t currently have.

Thus yes,

The federal government will help Oregon fund a way so get me trained in a position I can do part time despite my disabilities.

What I have is exactly for this reason.

My PTSD, fibromyalgia, and Bipolar are a severe combination that requires creativity and patience to get beyond.

And

Supplemental

Social

Security

Insurance.

Based on my

Current

Disabilities.

Me and Social Security dearly hope it’s not forever.

Now piss off. I was enjoying sleeping.

So tired I ate, recovered from falling asleep, then fell asleep. Now I’m too awake.

No selfie today, can’t be arsed

Here’s Tabitha instead.

P.s.

For the record:

I don’t drink

I don’t smoke

I can’t take weed.

While I could legitimately get the RX with fibromyalgia, not with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome so no opoids either.

Which means:

No narcotics

No benzodiazepines

Nothing particularly interesting

Screw doing any kind of illegal drug

And I was given fentanyl in the hospital. It was kind of meh. Worked enough I guess. But pain came right back when it wore off and it didn’t last that long.

I was a workaholic and wrote too much even when unable to do anything else. PTSD took care of that.

I used to emotionally eat but swapped such to Diet Coke. Thus that’s my bad habit. I drink too much soda.

I do have a bunch of moisturizers and some nail and feet stuff. Those last quite a while! So cost effective by comparison!

I have Tabitha, exercise, and meditation.

I’m so thrilling aren’t I?

Good thing Tabitha is a trained therapy cat who follows me around but gives me room to have a little cry before interrupting a gutting process.

People have tried to claim, hurt or cat-nap her since she became mine in 2023 when she was two.

I don’t fucking think so.

But now she has to come with me every time I leave and I have to bar the door when home!

I’m beginning to think even a quick dash to the mail is too long. While she usually is upset if I just step into the hall, it would be worse to be rush snatched!

Hope the dentist likes her.

P.P.S I suppose there’s always really loud music.

With little to report.

Here I am in panic button chic:

Okay it’s kind of boring. But I promised to check in daily. So there you go.

Sorry, still here. Just very depressed.

No selfie yesterday so here’s my cat in a basket again..

Probably no selfie today either.

Leaving aside the existential pleasures of allowing thoughts to just flow through unattended to and you really are contemplating nothing specific- just a deep state of meditative bliss.

Sometimes someone is thinking about something specific. But not exactly in the mood to share.

It’s private – about a private topic

Or incomplete and would have been more willing to share if it wasn’t for interruptions

Or it’s about work

Money

A project undone.

Or it disappears upon inquiry like shrodingers thought bubble.

While I understand the teasing “I can see you thinking” – which can lead to laughter and if they want to they can open up and share.

I find it invasive, rude, and inconsiderate to prod with “what are you thinking?”

The answer “nothing” could be true. Or it could be short hand for “Nothing I want to talk about.”

I process some stuff out loud – talking to a someone not physically present or necessarily real. But the rest floats through interrupted but unnoticed. Some things are more private than that.

Some seem geared to a desire for interactive processing of trauma and daily stress. Many just…

“Don’t want to talk about it.”

Why should we have to?

Boundaries deario. Respect that thoughts are private and none of your business. If it’s between the ears it sometimes should stay there.

Here’s an example of “not now”

I think about racial tension a lot – sometimes during events it’s better left alone than discussed. But privacy is not respected in this country and needs to be.

And there you have the three complained about answers to, “what are you thinking about?”

Nothing

It’s private

Not now.

Oh how rude inquiring minds insist and then complain if they don’t like it. It’s beyond frustrating. As intimated, some thoughts are incomplete, or automatic and we’re trying to reject bias we’re not inclined to share! Or is simply fucking private.

A few really do think you’re just picking a fight. Because the answer is one of the three above and you should know by now.

I’m still debating the difference between cluelessness and viscous inquiry. Have they not learnt or don’t want to?

Besides it’s often short hand for “is it about me?”

Not always. And if it is? It’s not always good to voice incomplete thinking or ideas we are processing to reject.

If it is about you, and not part of a conversation, do you really want to know?

Be careful of what you wish for

You just might get it.

This battle seems to rage endlessly, really the inquirer is feeling paranoid and insecure and worried your thoughts are about them.

And the three average answers always cause a fight.

So each think the other is the asshole.

You want open dialogue? Admit your fears and leave the private world alone.

“I’m just asking.”

“Then accept that I don’t want to tell you if it’s ‘just’ or ‘only’.”

It’s usually digging but not always malicious. But those asking need to shape up and shut up.

Just let thinkers think.

I don’t want to say anything

Might jynx it

And a little depressed.

I might have said this elsewhere but I moved in with the essentials I could fit into my tiny car. I basically had nothing

My sister, my mum, and SSI backpay replaced what I had lost. After escaping from my ex in a week, and Petaluma with books, shelves and ornaments stashed in a small storage space. (Imagine a walk in closet for real. That big). All I had left was in that car.

The storage was in California as I moved from motel to motel then stored enough to let me sleep in my car when I officially became homeless.

I slept in my car, I stayed in a shelter, I moved here with what I could fit into my trunk! Then what I could fit in the rest as I rescued my belongings.

Mum started filling in some of the gaps. And then after my suicide attempt in July sent self care things I use to cheer myself up – and look after myself which is secondary.

My sister filled in more, doing what she could to set me up for the winter.

SSI gave another installment of back pay and I burnt through it replacing sports, dance, physical therapy equipment and clothing. Bags for keeping “fussing stuff” in, baskets for organizing those. I was going to have a space for everything.

What’s more SSI is use it or lose it, so I was motivated to do what it’s intended to. Help me replace the lost and add the necessary.

I did buy a few frivolous things. That’s true. But not much of it was for anything more than my health or that of my homes.

I even bought a Vacuum cleaner!

I’ve stopped spending now and am waiting for items to come in – 1 per box usually, not that I set it that way. And it’s a little fun to be on the receiving end of rebooting my life.

But weird

I now have the things I need. But even my belly dance outfit had to be replaced – it went missing several moves ago. I had nothing so what I do have is new.

And I didn’t recognize any of it. My non psychic psychometry doesn’t do a thing because while some is pretty. It’s new. It doesn’t have years of history I remember by picking it up.

I wake up and don’t recognize my life. Writing I worked on my life since 9. (On a computer at 11) I wanted to be a writer and got good. I’m practiced and fast. But have to put everything on hiatus for now.

So I’m looking to learning ASL to get me out of poverty, then a PHD in psychology because America doesn’t need a guru, the culture needs a psychologist!

I will make a difference and write my books and in quite a number of years stick PHD at the end of my name.

Provided I survive being a digital hostage.

“Come back to reality honey”

The fuck? What part of this does she think isn’t real? Some people will say anything just to try to hurt you. Even if it’s ridiculous.

I’m in reality, love. Where are you?

There is the harassment, hen pecking, reactive abuse and mob mentality. The lies the gaslighting, the unwarranted advice and criticism, the constant commentary on my life.

I can get frustrated and tell Tabitha it’s not a good time. While doing what she’s meowing about because kids don’t care. And neither do cats. But oh no, that just has to be commented on and when rebuked “come back to reality”

Fuck you all.

I wake up and don’t recognize my room, I certainly don’t recognize my critics – their “suggestions” and “instructions” and whatever happened to my reputation that makes them think I’m anything but a sweetheart with a dark side.

Push me? I push back.

Welcome to being 17 again I guess. Time for Silver to shine though – my nickname from that era.

Everything is new, my goals and plans are new. It has all been severed from my past. And my neighbor doesn’t shut up with unasked for commentary.

Guess it’s time to listen to Metallica.

Because my college dormitory was quieter than this and my closest neighbor drank so much she ended up in the hospital!

I’m pissed. So music it is while they waste their breath.

Did they derail this whole topic from the truth? From the painful severance from my past? Did they make it now something you can’t relate to because who could relate to a victim of cumulative abuse?

Please think of what does connect. What does resonate. What is new and familiar to you. Because this blog contains mundane frustrations and the weird bullshit that caused it.

The former is a danger to anyone starting over.

The latter is just interesting.

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Added same day.

There is no coping mechanism not screwed up by the hostage takers. Even my music (played at “drown out the evil” level) is fiddled with.

Because they want me furious and in a hospital or dead. It’s much likely to be the latter but my Geiger recovery is inconvenient for them.

Got to discredit her

Got to make her look foolish

Got manipulate and control

Got to use reactive abuse to make her seem like the problem.

Get fucked.

I promised to stay quiet and stay out of it.

But nooooo there’s a new asshole in the neighborhood.

The only thing I like about this photo.

I’ve been sorting and organizing. Replacing items I used to have. My physical therapy routine will begin when I haven’t been buzzing around tidying it up!

And have been tidying and sorting all day. So no selfie. But Tabitha did take to my bedding basket.