Computer security has become such an issue I’ve been obsessed with looking for a solution. Bugs in Bluetooth aside, as I have an answer to that issue which requires variable frequencies and a lot of Geometry. I promise you eyes would glaze over. Short version? You can’t turn it off completely because you would never…

There are a lot of philosophies about healing from abuse. Step one always being get the fuck out of the abusive situation. Easier said than done I know, but also easier said than known to be done. Here’s what no one fucking told me ever. If someone is abusive get out, get out always, and…

I put this as its own topic because feeling betrayed is its own unique form of grief. It’s not just the loss of a loved one that stabbed in the back feeling doesn’t have the same answer. Grief sure. I buy the idea it’s love with nowhere to go. But I felt what happened to…

All these woes create a force within us. Sorrow. It will drag us under if left unchecked and can eventually kill us. Though depression is a different beast I’m not addressing here. It requires medication and therapy and a little delving into why but a lot more delving into what you can do about your…

I have a series of questions asked of me, what is evil the force, why does it exist, how could God “let” this happen, what do I do if I lose faith? I intend to answer those next but this one is early as pressure to understand each other is in place. I forgave the…

We are told the ultimate goal of Buddhism is to reach Nirvana. A place of perfection and nothingness that only a Buddha returns from – choosing to return to earth to get others there. To be recognized many Tibetan Llamas – reincarnated Buddhas – need items to hold and touch, waking them to who they…

I read somewhere that grief is love with nowhere to go. I’ve thought about that a lot lately. Is that the true crux. You love someone and they’re just not there anymore either because they walked out of your life they walked out of life permanently? It’s an issue I struggle with. People aren’t really…

Let’s be clear. Anger can sometimes be a reasonable response. Being wronged pisses us off and it alerts the fight side of fight, flight, or freeze. Though for some of us it’s a quick dovetail into the second two because we plain don’t want to fucking fight anymore. But when it comes to pure animal…

Who me? Did I do that? Yes you fucking did. And I would spend several pages saying if you did something own up to it even if it’s to the wind. You know when you’ve really done something wrong. Actually will hurt another wrong. You do know. But I have a more important point. Unfortunately…

Why the fuck is this separate from worry? Oh you must not actually have to worry about anxiety if you don’t know that anxiety has no fucking logic to it. Because it’s a force within you not a certain aspect of life that you’ve become preoccupied with. I mean certainly, some of our worries are…